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oh gosh, I have written like 5 drafts of a reply to this comment ranging from super personal to the short “preach!” I love your outlook and I want to reassure you that I quite comfortable knowing that my comfort zone is internet, novels, and cute animals.

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buy canada goose jacket cheap My end goal in reporting her? Righting wrongs. It is wrong of her to double dip the system. And I not even talking about me not getting benefits there are people and families far needier than us. People who canada goose outlet edmonton need health care for actual problems not taking too many whatever and having purple poop or no poop or canada goose outlet in vancouver whatever her weekly excuse is. She and her boyfriend should not be defrauding the system. They are the entire reason a stereotype exists for poor people on food stamps and I enabled it by letting her use my address. No longer. buy canada goose jacket cheap

My end goal? Be happy. And also, no contact. Otherwise my next step really is calls to cps.

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If she refuses to speak to you then she has made this her hill to die on. If you able to speak to her in a calm way about this and explain how what she did was wrong and she still goes off about it, then I think that for the time being there is no getting her to understand her actions. Maybe down the road she will but not now.

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LOL, I wrote up a novel that presented my case like a lawyer as to why I cutting off contact with her and how she can reinstate contact.

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I have heard your critiques and I taking a slightly harsher approach in draft two. I commenting rather than posting just because I want to keep everything in the same place.

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My life partner is a man who does not take on responsibility lightly. He is the kind of person to read the terms and conditions for any service that he is considering and if he cannot abide by those terms and conditions, will not accept the service. Apparently the terms and conditions for being welcomed into your home include accepting responsibility for loan that he could not afford at the time. If we had known this at the time that you offered, we would not have accepted.

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I am sorry that this had to be stated in written form. I wish you all the luck in your endeavors, but if you cannot face the fact that you are acting as an entitled, manipulative brat, then I cannot have you in my life.

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